What's your cancellation policy?

Sessions canceled less than 48 hours in advance are billed at the full session fee.

Sessions are held over secure video on Zoom. I can see clients located anywhere in California.

How long is each session?

Most clients start weekly. Once we've built momentum, biweekly may be an option. We'll figure out the right cadence together.

How do I get started?

No intake call. No preliminary questionnaire. No free consultation. Book your first session and we get to work the moment it starts.

Kink Therapy for Adults and Couples in CA

Expansive AND secure. You can have both.

You don't have to defend your relationship structure

Maybe you and your partner opened up six months ago and the emotional terrain is harder than either of you expected. Or you've been polyamorous for years and the same arguments keep showing up in every new relationship. You may be navigating a metamour dynamic that's pulling at your original partnership. Or you're the more confident one in your structure and watching your partner struggle to catch up. Perhaps you've tried therapy before and spent half the session explaining your relationships to a therapist who couldn't quite hide their judgment.

Whatever it is, you're starting to feel the cost in every corner of your life:

Sitting with jealousy you don't want to feel but can't stop feeling
Trying to manage time and emotional bandwidth across multiple connections
Watching the same arguments repeat in every new relationship
Avoiding hard conversations because they always seem to spiral
Carrying quiet loneliness inside relationships that are supposed to be expansive
Spending therapy sessions teaching your therapist instead of getting help

ENM affirming therapy can help.

It may feel impossible now, but you can navigate your relationships with clarity. You can feel secure in expansive structures. You can have hard conversations without watching them spiral. I can help you get there.

ENM affirming therapy helps you do three things:

Move out of circular arguments that keep showing up no matter how many books you've read or processing sessions you've had
Build secure attachment in non monogamous structures so jealousy and scarcity don't run the show
Navigate the hard conversations (boundaries, hierarchy shifts, new partners, breakups, family disclosure) with clarity and care

I tailor each step to your specific dynamics and life. My approach to ENM affirming therapy comes from ten years of lived experience in polyamorous and non monogamous communities, along with clinical training in trauma informed care, EFT, IFS, and sex therapy. You don't have to explain what polyamory is. You don't have to defend why your relationships are valid. We start from the assumption that ENM is a real, viable, and worthwhile way to structure your life.

Your relationships can be expansive AND secure.

You don't have to manage your relationships alone.

I can help you build the kind of connection that holds.

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